Wednesday, March 21, 2012

Book Review: Flirting with the Forbidden

Flirting with the Forbidden by Steven James

Two positive things to share about this book, one slightly negative. First, the negative. I don't know what to do now that I've finished reading the book. For a male, this is a tough challenge. After reading a book, I want to know what three things I should do to fix or improve the area of my life addressed by the author. This book is not written with that intention in any way... and so for me, its a challenge. The sub-title of the book "Finding Grace in a World of Temptation" is probably the message for me of what to do: simply accept the grace Christ provides each time temptation in its various masks approaches.

The main positive of this book is James' brilliant writing. His first-person recounting of Scriptural stories are so compelling, giving the reader a fresh perspective on the biblical character after considering the account. James' admits/warns in a footnote that he has taken some creative license, though "in no way is this meant to show disregard or disrespect for the Scriptures." His retelling of the stories does not diminish the accuracy or authority of the biblical text. James' writing makes reading enjoyable and the chapter lengths are such that 15 minutes is more than adequate for a challenging engagement with the narrative.

Secondly, I can see this book being a significant benefit in communicating the Gospel, especially through drama, though a preacher could also find significant benefit from the stories also. Though not even an amateur theatrical critic, I can foresee teachers/directors from junior high age through college (and beyond) taking the text James' provides and developing dramatic scripts involving a very small cast of people (sometimes 2-3 people) and presenting them with minimal extra writing.

A fun read that challenges the soul and broadens the perspective for the linear, right-brained person.

Book has been provided courtesy of Baker Publishing Group and Graf-Martin Communications, Inc. Available at your favourite bookseller from Revell, a division of Baker Publishing Group.

Wednesday, March 07, 2012

Making Goals & Kicking Negative Feelings

I do not quite know how, but Ms. Melanie Bowen came across my blog and contacted me about writing a guest post. I am glad to be able to offer this space and her thoughts for your consideration.

Making Goals and Kicking Negative Feelings
by Melanie Bowen


There is no better motivation in life, for anything, than a tangible reminder of all that needs to be done. This is what makes people so inclined to make a list of their goals, hopes and dreams during the course of their life. This tangible reminder that their world is full and happy and they can achieve anything they set their minds to is a way for people to motivate themselves to be their absolute best. This is one of the reasons so many doctors encourage their patients that are suffering from rare forms of cancer, such as mesothelioma to keep a journal or write a blog while they are undergoing treatments and after they have completed their treatments.

Quality of Life

Quality of life is important when it comes to a person’s prognosis with cancer. It is not uncommon for a cancer diagnosis to make a person feel down, even depressed. However, it is important that those with negative feelings find a way to diminish them and move forward. This is not to say that feeling negative emotions is a bad thing; emotions are natural and serve a purpose in every person. This is merely to say that there is a way to deal with those negative emotions so that they do not remain a person’s focus, taking away from the good things that person has to focus on. The reason doctors encourage journaling is because it is a way for people to deal naturally, and quickly with their emotions. Putting their feelings on paper is a way to deal with them so that they are no longer plaguing people. Purging their happy and negative feelings onto paper helps people deal with their emotions and improve their quality of life by not ignoring how they feel.

Making Goals

Another great aspect of journaling is a person’s ability to create goals. Goals are a great way for people to remind themselves they need to get some motivation going. A person that has goals is more likely to fight harder and to improve their quality of life because they have something to look forward to. These goals needn’t be anything huge; not everyone wants to accomplish something like sky diving or winning a Nobel Prize. Some people want simply to learn to drive a car with a manual transmission or to knit so they can make a blanket for their grandchild’s crib. The goals that are most important to people are the ones that should be written down for motivation.

Journaling is a great way for people to express themselves and make them heard, even if they are the only people that will ever see their words. A tangible reminder that life is good is always a beneficial feeling for cancer patients to have.